Spider courtship, mating and behaviour
Courtship of the female by the male can be elaborate, but much of this is to make sure that the female can distinguish him from a juicy meal!
Before mating the male spider deposits a drop of sperm on the surface of a small sheet of silk, and then transfers this to his palps which pick it up by capillary action. The male's palps fit into the female's epigyne like a key fits into a lock. This prohibits mating with the wrong species.
In species which spin webs the male will pluck and vibrate the strands of the web to attract the female's attention. All spiders are very sensitive to vibrations. He may hang around the web for days before making his move.
Some species wait until the female is occupied with prey; others until she is about to moult. Some supply a prey item as a gift. In species with good eyesight such as the Lycosidae and Salticidae, the males signals his intentions with his legs and palps.
The mature male on the right was found wandering across my floor in search of a female. For this species this is common behaviour at the end of summer and during the autumn.
Copulation can last just a few seconds or many hours depending on the species. A few females will catch and eat the male after mating, but in most cases the male is not eaten, and will go off to try to find another female to mate with.
In some species the mated pair will stay together for a while, but mature males do not live nearly as long as mature females. It is then, once the male has died of old age, that the female will eat the male.
Ballooning is done by small spiders and spiderlings. In the early summer it is done mainly by young spiders dispersing to a new area, and later in the year it is mainly adult money spiders that balloon.
To balloon the spider climbs as high up whatever structure it is on, turns to face the wind, and releases a few strands of silk. Then it lifts its body up holding on to the surface with just two front legs, and waits till the air currents carries it up.
Ballooning takes place when there is a very light breeze. Of course the spider will have no control over direction or landing place, and so many spiders perish as a result of ballooning.
Spiders can balloon to over 3000 m in height and still survive. They can travel great distances, and are often early colonizers after fire, disaster, etc.